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Is it Really That Difficult to Satisfy Women? Here’s Why the Answer is No

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Difficult to Satisfy Women:  Are you under the misapprehension that it is harder to please a woman than it is a man?

While it is undeniable that the female anatomy is more complicated than their male counterparts, that doesn’t mean that you can’t satisfy your partner each and every time that you make love.

Read on to discover exactly what you need to do to deliver maximum pleasure between the sheets and give her the orgasms she deserves.

How does the Female Orgasm Work?

Unlike with a man, when a woman climaxes, she can feel changes throughout her entire body. Furthermore, there are three main types of female orgasms: clitoral, vaginal, and cervical.

Direct stimulation of the clitoris can lead to a clitoral orgasm which typically involves a gradual build-up of pleasure until they reach a peak. This can be achieved with your fingers, palm, or a vibrator from

A vaginal orgasm is less common but still achievable if you know what to do and often results in a much more intense and deep orgasm. The front vaginal wall is also home to the A-spot, which, when stimulated, can lead to an orgasm. This can be achieved by inserting one or more fingers into the vagina or by using a larger sex toy that offers more girth.

Finally, you have the cervical orgasm, which is a much lesser known female orgasm but definitely worth paying attention to. Cervical stimulation can lead to a full body orgasm for females that can send shock waves of pleasure throughout their entire body.

Another benefit of a cervical orgasm is that the pleasure can go on for much longer than with a clitoral or vaginal orgasm. This is due to the fact that the cervix is located much deeper in the female anatomy. A cervical orgasm can be achieved using your hands and sex toys such as rabbit vibrators. If you are struggling with this type of orgasm, it can be a good idea to use parallel rhythms while playing with both the clitoris and the vagina.

What other Female Stimulation can Cause Pleasure?

As well as the most obvious female erogenous zones, there are other areas of the body that can be stimulated to give pleasure. For example, the nipples are full of sensitive nerve endings that feel so good when touched and played with. Although rare, some women can experience nipple orgasms which can make their entire body explode with satisfaction.

Anal play is another pleasurable sexual activity for some women, as long as you take it slow and use plenty of lubrication. Start by massaging the outside of the anus and then applying gentle pressure to the opening. Then, you can insert either a finger or an anal sex toy and wait for your partner to moan with pleasure.

Don’t forget to also pay attention to the neck, ears, and lower back which are all rich in erotically charged nerve endings and can each contribute to achieving the big “O”.

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